You know what’s truly amazing to me about music? You can feel an emotion, transfer that emotion to movement in your fingers, which transfers it to sound in the air. The sound moves through the air, hits someone’s eardrum, and is transferred to an emotion they feel. You can literally transfer an emotion you have to another person. That’s amazing to me. That’s why they say music is the language of emotion.
Can you learn how to do this? Hell yea. I used to thing it was just “something inside us” or something “some people just had a knack for”. Its not. It’s a learnable skill just like you can learn to sightread or learn to play scales. And you learn it just like anything else, by practicing.
So how do you learn it? Here are the five main techniques I use to practice playing with emotion:
Once you learn the notes of a song, there are really only three elements you can change: dynamics, articulation, and tempo. Try messing with these three aspects, and experiment with different ways of playing with them. Seriously, you can learn a lot by just messing around.
For dynamics, don’t simply read the music and play the F parts loud and the P parts soft. That’s only the first level of dynamics, the beginner’s stage. You can add swells, or small crecendos/decrecendos in places where it isn’t written. Try to feel the harmonies and use that to guide you. You can also try accenting different notes to bring them out more.
Articulation is how staccato or legato you play. Don’t simply read the staccato dot and just play the note shorter without thinking about it. Try to put yourself in the shoes of the composer, think about the emotion he or she is trying to convey. Use that and try to play the staccato in a way that will convey the feel of the song the best.
Same goes with tempo. Try gradually speeding up and slowing down with the music. A good trick is to start a phrase slow, speed up slightly into the climax of the phrase, and slow the tempo back down at the end of the phrase.
2. Imitate Others
Go to YouTube and watch a bunch of different versions of the piece you’re playing. It’s crazy how two versions of the exact same song can sound completely different. Some things you’ll like, some things you won’t. Take the things that sound good to you and use them when you play.
A lot of people are against doing this because they think it’s “copying” other people and it’s not being true to yourself. Here’s the thing though, no matter how hard you try to copy someone, it’s still going to have a piece of you in it. It’ll sound slightly different than their version, like it’s their version with a twist. So it’s still your version of the music. And realize too that people imitate others musically all the time; sometimes it’s subconscious, they might not even realize it. People are affected by others emotionally and is not a bad thing, it’s beautiful.
3. Move with the Music
Studies show that physical movement affects emotion just as emotion affects physical movement. When you’re happy you smile. But if you smile, it also makes you feel happier. So try moving your body with the music. Sometimes it will feel forced, but eventually you’ll get the hang of it and know how to manipulate your emotions and sound with movement.
You should feel confident with how you look when you play. Take a look at some YouTube pianists. Some of them have weird facial expressions. But it helps them play better. I have this weird head-shake thing I do a lot when I play, but it helps me get into the zone and play better. Don’t be self conscious about how you look when you play. Other people don’t care how you look when you play, they care how you sound. And if they judge you on how you look, they’re not the type of people whose opinions you should care about anyway.
The subtleties of playing with emotion are hard to explain with words. There are tons of minute changes you make every second. It’s just like when you convey emotion with your face. When you convey happiness, the outsides of your eyes squint slightly, the corners of your mouth raise, and your lips pull back to reveal a smile. You don’t think about these small changes, they happen subconsciously.
The same goes for playing piano. To make a single chord sound more sentimental, you slightly slow down the tempo, relax your wrist, and round your arms down and out when you play it. You don’t have time to think about these movements, they have to come from your subconscious. To come from your subconscious, they must be triggered by an emotion.
One way to get into an emotional state is visualization. Before you play, take 15 seconds and visualize a scene that could relate to your music. For example, if you’re playing a calm, serene, beautiful piece, imagine you’re sitting by a quiet, still lake. If you’re playing a fast, loud piece, imagine you’re in the middle of a war zone before you play. You can even think of an emotional event that’s happened to you in the past. Make the visualization so vivid that you can feel it.
After a minute or so, start playing and notice the difference. Whatever feeling you have will transfer to how you play. Without you even realizing how you’re playing differently, it will come out differently because of your emotional state.
5. Emotional Extremes
Here’s another cool little trick that can help you put more emotion into songs. Play your song first with no emotion at all. Just play like a robot. Then contrast that by playing with as much emotion as you can. Just dripping with emotion. Overdo the expressiveness. The contrast between playing non expressively and super expressively will give you a bigger frame of reference to how much emotion you can play with.
Never underestimate the power of music. It can truly be used to move people. Always keep in mind the whole reason you’re learning the notes and technique is to get to the point where you can put yourself into the music. Try these techniques and let me know if you have some other ones that work for you!